Category Archives: Relationship

We are what we think we are!

Posted on June 7, 2013 | 4 Comments

bushes-flowers-20130403_091836We are concerned how Governments are being run? Why Corporations are ruthless? How people’s representatives hardly represent anyone but themselves? How people at the helm of affairs, are and were, always callous and insensitive if not ruthless to people? We wonder why is it so?

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Enigma of hurt, anger and violence!

Posted on April 19, 2013 | 6 Comments

Physical hurt ordinarily is a temporary affair. The pain finds a plateau and subsides. Emotional hurt is like skeletons in an empty box. A blow of air, a shift in pace or a stumble on a perceived step, anything can cause carrion to rattle. Hurt turns inward as despair or depression. Hurt, when reflects outwardly, it is an anger for catharsis. That is good part of it, if there is anything good in it. The worse is that cinder of hurt keeps burning inside charcoal of despair or depression and looks for next opportunity of catharsis by anger or violence. What causes emotional hurt? People? Society? Illogical people? Injustice? Illness? Failure (whatever that means to an individual)? Physical deformity? Other’s success (whatever that means to an individual)? Other’s failure? Continue reading →

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Blogging: Serious risk in reading blogs!

Posted on April 17, 2013 | 6 Comments

Peeping into personal lives of others, is an ultimate human adventure. We love to see and judge. Even if we rename judging as helping/advising/learning. But the fact remains. Personal blogging gives an opportunity to see inside the mind of blogger albeit through a prism of myriad words which we may or may not understand.
My suggestion to all self-righteous, pious, noble, moral, religious, pure, honest, holy, emotionally unstable, depressed, anxious, di-polarised etc. people is not to read others’ blogs. It may shock them. Forcing them to cry or even more send them in shock, anxiety, despair or depression. Continue reading →

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Gay Marriage: An outsider’s perspective on issues.

Posted on April 1, 2013 | 2 Comments

Flowers: Pink DahliaIt was long time ago that I heard a logic ‘We all know the ‘reason’ why people get married, but it is never mentioned explicitly.’ Now I wonder what that meant. In fact every time I asked a person getting married or recently married, the answer was that this is what every one does. Some courageous one tell me that they married because they loved each other. In some of those cases I only had to wait few years to ask again. But that is a different matter. Or is it really different? Unfortunately I am not personally acquainted with any homosexual person. However I believe that this should not change anything because I never had privilege of peeping into bedroom of any other couple hetro or homo. But my question remains same. Why marriage? Continue reading →

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Secret of happy marriage: Ten Rules.

Posted on March 31, 2013 | 12 Comments

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New Delhi also happens to be divorce capital of India with highest number of matrimonial disputes pending in courts. Considering this dis-harmonious atmosphere, I was anxious about my marriage. What should I do and what not to do. First I took out Black’s Dictionary and looked up the word husband. According to the dictionary it originated from the term ‘House bond’. This made me even more nervous. Bondage? I consulted a friend, Mr. X as usual. He listened to my problem and advised me to be in touch with IAHH which was a Non-Governmental Organisation devoted to uplifting the standards of marital relationships. I went to this NGO and became a member. The gave me a charter of ten rules to follow. These Rules are:
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How I met my second wife!

Posted on March 30, 2013 | 3 Comments

It was my graduation year from High School or something and I was advised to take up side classes in computer programming. That was so long ago that DOS (Disk Operating System) was not born as yet. It is said that love is at first sight. But I prefer Hindu version of incarnation, according to which the Union of marriage takes place after many incarnations and (Union) can be repeated in many lives.

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Holi: A festival of catharsis!

Posted on March 27, 2013 | Leave a comment

Happy Holi

Today is Holi. A festival of colour. An event of mass catharsis. An overwhelming relaxation of mind and body. A war fought with dry and wet colors, water, water balloons, spray guns and not the least with mugs and buckets.
The best two greeting messages, are from Gagan and Vikrant with beautiful pictures:
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Searching for human on earth!

Posted on March 24, 2013 | 10 Comments

IMG_20130325_140120It is a different story as to how I landed on earth but the problem is that I was supposed to meet and relate to a race called ‘Humans’. I am here for a very long time looking for the species called ‘Humans’ but no success, so far.
Female specie: I met a female specie but could not discover if she was human. She insists on being female and does not event pretend to be human. She follows variety of religious practices which makes it difficult to know of her religion. Similarly there is no way to know if she is a human. After all no one could suspect me either and simply presume me as Hindu/Muslim/Sikh/Christian/Jew only because I look like them. Nobody suspect that I am an alien.

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Why people do not smile? Sign of alien invasion?

Posted on March 6, 2013 | 7 Comments


Today I had to visit the hairdresser. He belongs to family business of barber like his forefathers. Barbers had a traditional role in Indian society. Once they used to represent the parties in arranging marriages. Why a barber? My guess is that since they interacted with so many types of people they were considered appropriate to make small talk into big talk. BTW I have found all the barbers who were from the family of barbers, talkative and humorous. Continue reading →

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Why relationships fail?

Posted on February 6, 2013 | 5 Comments

The most important person in the Universe

All relationships including romantic ones fail because of one single core issue i.e. deep rooted desire to dominate. We may believe in any God or may not believe at all but we practice one God i.e. ourselves. We are supreme. Our desires are foremost and most urgent. Others can wait or should wait. Can we at any given moment visualise that we are not the centre of the universe?  Do we ever see any inter-connection? Continue reading →

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Spritual message in the movie “Life of Pi”

Posted on February 4, 2013 | 1 Comment

Life of Pi

Last Sunday I watched the movie “Life of Pi“. It is an English movie with almost Indian crew. Or perhaps the leading actors are Indian? Whatever. It is claimed to be based on an adventurous novel. The movie has beautifully depicted the adventure. Photography and Direction both need to be appreciated for an excellent job. While actors were at their best performance. The movie starts with the words like ‘God’ and ‘spirituality’. Unfortunately, the message about it is lost in the noise of beauty of presentation of a rather impossible adventure.  So what is the spiritual message in the movie? Continue reading →

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